Yeah cash is very impersonal. This is harder than I thought. My husband is such a wonderful person and has really made many sacrifices. The money is not community money. The money is from a 2nd part-time job I took on in hopes of opening a home daycare next year. This car is in what I consider to be fair shape and needs a lot of work but HE loves it..and I love HIM and this makes HIM happy. He wants a Labree(sp?) exhaust system and I just don't have that much saved yet. The 31(his bday) is comming faster than I ready for.